Worried about first time intercourse? Take these precautions...

Let us admit the truth- intercourse may be a fearsome factor for many who are going to experience it for the first time. Boys and girls alike undergo a tremendous tension before experiencing lovemaking for the first time. These worries can be abandoned and you can obtain complete enjoyment at the first intercourse itself by; taking some minor precautions.

You must take mental precautions primarily before having first sexual relationship. If you are physically and mentally stimulated to have the first time physical relationship, you may never have any fears. At the same time never worry about your or your partner's virginity. If you are having sex for the first time, you will be a virgin and you shouldn't feel inferior about it. If you feel pressurized to have intercourse for the first time, stay away from it. It is always advisable to select the apt partner for your first sex. Only because he/she is your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't mean that you have to loose your virginity to them.

[an error occurred while processing this directive] You must be mature enough to discuss about sexual precautions on the verge of your first intercourse. The first and foremost precaution is to arm yourself with condoms either for yourself or for your boyfriend. It is better to stay away from oral, fingering, anal and hand plays at your private areas, since it may aggravate the chance for sexually transmitted diseases. There are chances for pregnancy at the first sex itself. It doesn't make a difference if you are having first sex in a bath or in a standing position. If you are not ready to become parent, use contraception or fix things with the help of a doctor.

You must be vigilant to take precautions regarding your partner's feelings before having first intercourse. Many girls and boys are scared about the pain during first intercourse. First time intercourse may not always hurt and at the same may not be great also. Girls have more chances to experience pain due to their hymen breaking. Their partners can be gentle t them and try to enjoy the sexual pleasure. The first time love makers can find out the fantasy dreams of their partners and play according to that. Love and foreplay are essential actions before you lust each other. Your partner may take a while to tell about where they would like to be touched and how. You can talk to your partner "how" and "where" you can find more sexual thrill. After your first lovemaking do not forget to wash up and clean yourself before moving onto other passionate affairs.

Story first published: Wednesday, February 28, 2007, 15:32 [IST]

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