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Mothering your husband-Is it a threat to your sexual life?

Many men desire their wives to imitate their mother's habits, routine, cooking and caring. The list stops here. No man ever dreamt about a mothering wife on bed. Men all over the world would like an active partner for their physical pleasure. They will be more pleased if the woman takes the initiative for the sexual activities. However just imagining a dominating partner or wife in bed will be last thing they can do.

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A firm negative response for the sexual union from the wife often drives men to uttermost dilemmas. Some women chide their husbands when they are interested for a passionate lovemaking. This often reminds the men of their mother's chiding for their adolescent pranks. A brief remark from their wife about the man's sexual behaviour often hurts his ego and he may feel that he is unable to satisfy the sexual needs of his wife. On the other hand if the wife constantly shows negative response and comments about his sexual enthusiasm man often feels that he is a sexual maniac and tries to retrieve from any other physical union.

Many men are affected in their sexual lives due to the mothering of their wives in day today life also. When women gain an upper hand in the family affairs, men often imagines a mothering figure in her than as a life partner. The ultimate decision of the powerful women may often makes the men submissive to their desires on bed. The situation gets worsened when a baby is born to them and the husband feels that his wife is using same pampering methods to him and the baby.

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Women are often wondered why men demand a double face from them. The easiest method to handle the situation is to build up a healthy sexual relationship with your partner. You can use some spice up techniques to make your love life interesting. If you are so tired to indulge in a passionate lovemaking; make your partner understand your situation. At the same time if your partner in disinterested to indulge in a relationship; try to rouse him with some stimulating steps. You can always keep an effective communication during the foreplay that will encourage your partner to come back to you.

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Mothering or not, man's desire for women is eternal. Let that unique sensual pleasure not get hampered by some silly egos. Use all those stimulating tips and get ready to win your wife on bed.

Story first published: Friday, April 13, 2007, 18:59 [IST]

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