How TO Turn On Your Partner

Love is not just mouthing sweet-nothings. It needs to be as action packed as any thriller. And once you get into the act you will have your partner turned on within no time. So get your act together and look forward to a night/day of passion and romance.

Be original: There are no books and guidelines to this. Just understand your partner's desires and act accordingly.

Play Teacher: Teach each other all you know about the game of love. Men love to be taught how to kiss, hug, cuddle and make long slow love. Women generally tend to be a bit shy but very eager to learn how to please their partners.

Drop inhibitions: A shy partner can be very tender but prolonged inhibitions can be very boring. It's just you and your partner. So go ahead and get kinky!



Dress for the occasion: Gals, go buy that sheer negligee you saw at the lingerie store. This will wake up even a sleeping partner. Guys, go buy that sheer negligee for her!

Smell good: Perfumes are a turn-on. Body odour is a turn off. So invest in some good colognes and perfumes.

Watch a romantic film together: Snuggle and cuddle as you watch it and this will lead to bigger pleasures.

Get sensual: Go in for bath rubs, massages, bubble baths, scented candles and aromatic oils.

Paint each other: There are lots of designs to choose from. And you do not have to be a Picasso for this. Try edible body paints (chocolate flavoured to start with) to get your creative juices flowing.

Get adventurous: It doesn't mean you have to practice the Kamasutra page by page. But how about trying something simple? An easy start would be to blind fold each other and play the game of love.

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Story first published: Tuesday, February 28, 2006, 13:44 [IST]

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