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Dos And Don'ts Of Sensual Biting

Make your love squirm with utmost sexual desire with the soft nibbles, and harsh bites, on the most sensual areas of lovemaking. Sensual biting is always a turn on as your body reacts to the moderate pain in the same manner it reacts to the skilled mouth or tongue. However if the bite worsens to unbearable pain, it will surely make him/her have a second thought to have any sexual relationship with you. So, follow these dos and don'ts of sensual biting to master the art of lovemaking.

Dos

Caress your lovers erogenous zones
Biting is an art, and it takes a bit of practice to master it. However if it is a new terrain for you, then start with the nape of the neck. You can pull her sensual desire into extensive lovemaking delight by beginning your moonlit magic with sensual kissing then slowly taking the command to act the way you want it to. The inner thigh is another area where you can make your lovers toes curl with more desire. To know more about other areas read about women's erogenous zones and men's erogenous zones

Don't brood on the same point for hours
To keep the pleasure high for a longer time, keep it quick. The longer you try to maintain the pleasurable bite, more pain is registered. Therefore the ideal nip should not last for more than few seconds. However if your partner asks for more then prolong the time period for more intense feeling. Make sure not to brood on a particular point or return to the same zone every now and then. This could get boring, predictable and even painful fast. Don't make your lover feel he/ she is in abed with a cannibal.

Have a safety word
Create your own safety word while making love. For instance choose a Latin name for feather or an everyday object stove, if the biting becomes sensual or more painful respectively. If you want more of that nibble then moan out feather and if you want the ridiculous and harsh biting to call an end then scream aloud stove. This will help your pleasure giver an instant clue to whats going on in your mind.

Don'ts

Avoid biting random areas
No matter how much your partner enjoys this play, random biting without any focus can turn off any being. This act can ruin your best evening of your sexual life. Make sure your partner moans with pleasure and not with agony.

Don"t gnaw
Don't make your love feel like a chew bone. Always remember the more you nip a particular area for more than the required time, the less pleasurable the sensation becomes. Keep your bites crisp, clean and quick.

Avoid making any noise
You may want to go wild to turn on your lover, but that doesn't mean you have to even make unnecessary noises like an animal to scare the person for life. For many slurping and smacking of the lips are particularly disgusting. Silliness can have the same effect for instance, comments like 'Yummy' or other sayings. So just bid them bye.

Biting can be dangerous.
Biting can be very dangerous too. Make sure not to have open wounds after a session of erotic play. However at same time, do not panic over a slight red discolorations. It will fade or even bruises depending on how ardent your bite mate is.

Story first published: Wednesday, February 6, 2008, 15:45 [IST]

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