Myths And Facts About Physical Pleasure

Sexuality is the realm of human life that is mistaken and misunderstood than any other aspect of life. There are several common myths that affect male sexuality, most noticeably. It is astonishing that even in the modern era where intellectual explosion has happened, people believe in baseless myths and consider them as scientific. This is an attempt to list out few of the common sexual myths and the facts behind them.

Does size matter?

There have actually been quite a few intensive studies been carried out to look into whether the size of a man's penis actually affects sex or not. These studies have suggested that although men with larger penises are often more successful at getting sex, they don't think that this actually affects sex in any way. The size of the penis doesn't actually affect the pleasure from sex, as always it depends on what people do with it.

'Sex requires an erection'

This myth seems to of become even more of an issue because of there being so many different impotence aids and drugs available. Most men will be unable to get it up at one time or another, however this doesn't need to cause a serious problem. There are a great deal of things that you can do to get pleasure for both you and your partner without having to have an erection. You can use your mouth and hands for example. Your skin is very sensitive and can be considered as a sexual organ.

'Sex is over when the man ejaculates'

This doesn't actually have to be what happens. When a man comes the couple could slow down, and then start from the beginning. If they talk and tell each other what they want then they should be able to satisfy one another. Other than ihe intercourse thre are so lot of things to do to enjoy the sexual pleasure. Sex can continue after the man has had an orgasm, in fact a man can enjoy sex without having to ejaculate.

'Men in relationships do not masturbate'

This statement really is not true. When a man is in a relationship he will tend to masturbate much less frequently, however both people are likely to masturbate when their partner is not available. Some couples like to spend time masturbating together, it's completely up to the partners.

'Men are always ready and willing to have sex'

Even men who really love sex aren't always in the mood, and don't always want to get into the mood. Sometimes they just have other things on their minds. And while sex can be an important and satisfying part of life, there are other things that are just as important and satisfying or more so, even to guys.

All orgasms are "explosive, mind-blowing, and earth-shattering."

If you've been living in this culture with its movies and pulp fiction, you may have a very unrealistic idea of what an orgasm is all about. The fact is that orgasms vary in intensity and character. It is perfectly normal for them to feel different from one occasion to the next.

Story first published: Wednesday, January 16, 2008, 17:27 [IST]
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